So sad and depressed, but I’m eating right!
Well it was a rough, rough night! I called Jackie and really don’t want to go into details but I’m tired buddies. Hubby went to court and sold his soul! Marquis mom has to pay no child support and wants no visitation! I’m crying and really don’t know what to do, but I’m not turning to food! Last night was a real bad night and I actually left my house - bags packed and all, but my mom said to go back and don’t allow a little child make you leave your house. I love all my buddies but I don’t know what to do now! Just please pray and keep me in your thoughts!!!
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Now why in the world would he agree to something like that??? Girl that is crazy, but I am sure there is some kind of reason and explination. Man, I hate that you are going thru all this, especially at these holiday times, when family is supposed to be a huge part of the good times!! i know how you feel, I ahve been kinda bahumbug myself, but just becuase I have been really busy and stresssed. I hope you still ahve a wonderful holiday, and girl, mama is right, never let anyone drive you out of your home!!! BIG HUGGGGGG ALL THE WAY FROM TEXAS!!!!!
Oh, my darling Angela. I wish there was something I could do to help. You are in my prayers sweetheart, please take care.
So sorry Angela. Everything must seem hopeless right now but your mom has a very good point. The more you show this little boy he has the power to make you leave, the more he will keep pushing for that very thing to happen. Remember, he’s little and if I remember right, he’s 8 and he’s had all those years to act a certain way and now he’s told to act this other certain way and he’s just not used to that. I remember my son’s dad not seeing my son much and one day my son went to stay with him and my ex wanted to throw all these rules at him asap and it just wasn’t going to happen. Things take time. If you want your life to work and Marquis isn’t going anywhere, then it’s time to change strategies. Find something that will work like a rewards system for good behaviors, at least until you two can build a relationship. I don’t want to make things sound real easy but I just want you too know there is hope. You may just have to change the way things are going. Change the direction. Good luck Angela. God is giving you alot but you can get through it.
I am so sorry to hear that you are going through such a rough time. It sounds like you are really at the end of your rope, but I am so glad to hear you have your family there to help you through it. Even after we grow up and become adults, some times we still need our moms to keep us on track. My thoughts are with you always!
“God has kept me here for a reason.
I survived because He has a plan for me.
All my bad relationships, the consequences, the
hard times, the sad times, the death of my loved ones, the back stabbing from my friends, the negative thoughts, or the lack of support; I made it because I am blessed!
I release and let go of all past hurts, misunderstandings and grudges because I am abundantly blessed! I recognize them as the illusions they are, and sent from the enemy to kill my spirit, steal my joy, and destroy my faith; For God is all there is. All else is a lie!”
Now give yourself a hug, wipe your tears away and walk in victory! !!!!!!!
I love you, but more appropriately God loves you BEST! Be blessed and know that you are at one with THE SPIRIT OF THE LIVING GOD!
“May the Lord keep watch between you and me when we are away from each other.” — Genesis 31:49.
Amen!
Oh Angela, you touch my heart. You have accomplished so much and life just seems to get tougher. Now we all know that’s just not fair! But you seem to have some good coping skills. And after the day you had yesterday, to stay on track……wow. Don’t know that I could have done it. I have two daughters about your age, I am often amazed at their strength, I’ll add you to that list. You will be in my prayers on Sunday morning. Sandy
Angie, this is a time to remember your faith. Your mom is 100% correct. You have to go back and face your situation. It is so easy to run away and say forget about it. But ask yourself is that what you really want. Not knowing the whole story but your husband did what he felt was right for his son. The only problem is that your husband did not confide in you with his decision which is wrong. Just hang in there because everything will work itself out. Mo
Hey girl, hang in there. I have to agree with your mom and everyone else. You can’t run away. I know right now things are tough, but with a lot of work and prayer things will get better. I can’t for the life of me understand why your husband would do things the way he did. I feel for the little guy though that his mom doesn’t even want visitation! You wonder what goes through his little mind about that one. I am glad that you are not turning to food. Hang in there.
(((((HUGS)))) I am sending good thoughts and prayers your way!
Huge hugs to you my friend
You are in my prayers
Lori
I’m so sorry, I’m proud of you for not turning to food. Thank God for moms, huh? Love you. Lots of prayers!
You are a very strong woman. I know you hear that alot but you are. God wouldn’t give you these things to handle unless you were strong. I truly am sorry for all that you are dealing with right now. Anything new takes time to adjust too, especially for a child. I know it rough right now but I will keep you in my prayers and hope things get better soon. Keep fighting girl, it will be worth it in the end. Love ya!