Part 2….We talked!
Okay; Part 2 of Am I wrong. My hubby and I talked and of course being of the male gender he didn’t see anything he did wrong and our talk went no where. Of course the boy’s mother called and told him to tell the school that he hates it with us and wants to go back to his mother! WHAT!@##$$$ She is totally nuts and I can’t wait until the court hearing on December 10th! However; children services dropped the case said it wasn’t significant info. and that’s that! So where do I go from here buddies? Well I continue on with my life, I pray and leave everything in God’s hands!!!
I am not stressing nor am I worrying about anything else whatever will be….will be and on that note, I;m going to walk on my treadmill take my daughter to get her hair done and then head off to work! Thank you guys for everything you are the best!!!
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I hope all turns out well. Men can be stubborn…lol!!!
MEN!!! I agree, you have done all you can do. Time for God to take over, will be praying for you!
I say find a way to be too busy, go to the gym, whatever and make DH spend time with Marquis.
Good for you for hitting the treadmill and not letting things get to you and stand in the way of your goal.
Hugs
Lori
I hate that you’re having baby-momma-drama on top of the strain on your marriage. I read your blog yesterday, but I didn’t want to put my 2 cents in, it seemed that you already knew how you wanted to proceed and needed reassurance, which is absolutely a legitimate approach! I think you got some great advice from a lot of the buddies and honestly, I’m very saddened that you’re going through this. I know that in your heart, you have good feelings and want to make this work, so I pray that God gives you the strength and wisdom necessary to survive this. And DH, well, I laughed when I read your blog this morning because men can be so dense!! LOL!
Hey gurl, I hope everything works out well for you and your family………God works wonders! We’ll all be praying for you! Take care!
Boys are dumb. I’ve said this for years and I’ll say it for years to come. Push back - make sure he knows that you need him to step up and don’t take no for an answer. If you do, you’ll end up feeling resentful and that won’t help anyone including the son. Hugs Angela! Ellen
Girl I am with Ellen. Kris pulls the same mess and I just feel like, hello fool you don’t get it. he is always liek you get so upset about stuff that doesn’t even matter, ummm guess what, if it matters to me, then it matters!! ha ha, that is the thing “they’ don’t realize, it isn’t about how they see things when we are upset it is about how WE see things!! ha ha, now I am sure I will get tons of emails saying how wrong I am but if this bothers you and upsets you, which I knwo it does, then you need to be like look, this is a problem and make sure he knows, youa re only going to put forth as much effort as he does. i know there is a child at stake here, a child that needs (I am sure) alot of love and nurturing, btu it is his son,a dn you are great for stepping up, btu sometimes you need to be harsh and flat out let hit him with the tough love and let him know by not taking the time to be a father, he is just as bad a parent as his mother is!! maybe if you really put it into perspective for him,t hen he will get it, but also be prepared for a “male response” by that I mean he may feel that by providing you, he is caring for his son. i remeber one time I wanted ot see a movie and Kris didn’t want to see it, so i ended up going to see it with a female friend of his, and later on when another movie I wanted ot see came out he was like oh no, i took you to the last one. i was liek no you didn’t and he was like well it was my friend so i get the credit, becuase if not for me then you wouldn’t have known him to see it with him!! HUH??? Guys are so simple. So yeah I have just blabbed and blabbed on your blog but I knwo you love me anyway so it is all good!!!!
Angela, you are the best thing for Marquis right now! His mother is DUMB! and his father is scared of taking on this HUGE responsibility, so he is delegating it to you! He may not even realize this! You are such a strong person and of course your hubby knows it, so he is hoping that your strong influential ways of mothering your girls, will come out and be directed for the good of Marquis! AND I am sure it will! You might not agree with this sudden change, but everything happens for a reason, yet sometimes we are unaware of the reasons, but everything will work out! I understand that you need help from your hubby, but do your part, he will pitch in in due time, guys don’t understand what mothering does to us…(DRAINS US!) AND……GIRL BACK ON THE TREADMILL TOO! AWESOME! KEEP ON WALKING AND TELL THEM WHO IS BOSS! Happy Thanksgiving too! Its coming……Angie
Oh dear. Well the boys mother is crazy and hubby needs a serious reality check. Keep your chin up honey.